welcome, fellow seeker

You’ve done therapy. Been on the yoga retreat. You’ve probably got a singing bowl or stick of sage stashed away somewhere. In short, you’ve done enough work on yourself to navigate the world without self-destructing or acting like a massive arsehole.

But you life keeps ticking on and you can’t shake the feeling that you might be living someone else’s, that yours is elsewhere, passing you by. Or that the lumps you’ve had to cut off yourself to fit into this outwardly perfect-looking life were actually pretty fundamental to who you are and you’d quite like them back, thanks.

You feel like you can’t do it anymore. But even saying that out loud makes you feel guilty. Shameful for looking the gift horse of a pretty good life in the mouth.

Take a breath.

You’re in the right place.

HI, I’m Karen

I had my midlife crisis at 30, so I’ve been there, done that and bought the tee and matching sweatshirt.

And I didnt take any short cuts. In fact I took a really long, torturous route so that you don’t have to. You’re welcome.

Now let’s get you living the life that lights you so far up, you’re visible from space.

And you won’t have to set fire to everything you’ve built so far (unless you really want to, in which case I’ll be there with the accelerant and glitter cannons) or act like a massive arsehole (though sometimes that is the appropriate response, but let’s talk about that first).

Let's Talk

This is for you if…

You look like you’re holding it all together, but inside, something feels off.

  • You feel disconnected from who you are or what you want

  • You’ve spent years prioritising everyone else over yourself

  • You struggle to set boundaries without guilt

  • You feel stuck, restless, or quietly unfulfilled

  • You keep thinking, “There must be more than this”

  • You find yourself numbing out on alcohol, food, shopping or doomscrolling

You’re not broken.

You’ve just been living out of alignment with yourself for a long time.

The real problem

Most Gen X women were never taught how to have a strong relationship with themselves.

We were taught to:

  • Be responsible

  • Be accommodating

  • Keep things together

  • Put others first

And it worked… until it didn’t.

Now you might feel:

  • Lost in your roles or relationships

  • Unsure what you actually want

  • Disconnected from your own needs, voice, or identity

This isn’t failure.

It’s a sign you’re ready to come back to yourself.

How I help

I help you rebuild your relationship with yourself—so everything else can change from there.

Together, we’ll work to:

  • Reconnect with yourself

  • Understand what you feel, need, and want—without second-guessing it.

  • Rebuild self-trust

  • Start making decisions that feel right for you.

  • Create healthy boundaries

  • Without guilt, overthinking, or fear of letting people down.

  • Feel like yourself again

  • Calmer, clearer, more confident—and more you.

  • Feel joy again (remember that?)

My approach

This isn’t just about positive thinking or surface-level change.

My coaching style combines:

  • Somatic work

  • Nervous system awareness

  • Emotional insight

  • Deep pattern work

So we don’t just talk about change—we create it at the level where it actually sticks.

This is gentle, honest, and powerful work.

How to get started

You don’t need to have everything figured out.

You just need to know you’re ready for things to feel different.

Step 1

Book a free connection call

Step 2

We talk about what’s going on for you

Step 3

You decide if this feels like the right next step

You’re allowed to come back to yourself.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

Book a free call


I felt completely seen, heard, held and understood in my sessions with Karen. She offers great reflections and has a way of lasering in on the nub of an issue in a no-nonsense but graceful way.

Claire, 48

Reviews

I covered more ground in 5 sessions with Karen than I did in 6 months working with my previous coach.

Jane, 45

I never thought that I could learn so much about myself, my dream partner and my relationships in just 5 sessions, but I have and I am so grateful.

Lydia, 31